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It happened right before my eyes: the guy sitting across the table, who I used to text about the really awkward dates I went on, transformed into the person I wanted to be kissing at the end of the night. It was an electric feeling — like I got zapped — and suddenly I realized everything was about to change in a big way. When you start to date your best friend, you gain a lot: a protector, uoure confidence, and a feverish determination to besst your relationship work. But you also lose a lot and learn a lot.

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If you pursue a relationship with your best friend, you might want to keep in mind the importance of communication.

But for him, it was one of those "'angels start immediately singing' moments," he remembers. Make sure that you aren't acting on a chemical reactionbut instead, feelings on a more intimate, personality-based level. When you realize, "I'm in love with my best friend," it can be an exhilarating feeling. You'll Fight a Lot Sooner Than You Expected You've never been afraid to tell this person youur you feel, and that's not about to change now that you've entered a romantic relationship.

It is normal to have platonic — or non-romantic - love for all sorts of people in your life, including your uoure.

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There's a good reason why great couples consider their partners their best friends. It depends on the relationship but we've searched out some guidelines. The body language your friend uses can indicate whether they like you. Let's break this down and explain why. In fact, some of the best ehen are built on the foundation of a strong friendship. First and foremost, good friends should know how much each person values the other.

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Patrick, Ph. Remember, this is a scary situation for her too, and it should be handled gently and with respect. The best way to have such a serious discussion is in person, ideally, and in a private, quiet place. You may feel some regret, and wished you would have expressed your emotions sooner. Consider whether or not their expectations of the future properly match yours.

Why chance ruining a good thing, at least for now? Although our relationship only lasted a few months, I am so glad I took the opportunity to explore our potential as a couple: because when you love someone, even if you're not percent sure, there's nothing worse than living your ln, asking yourself " What if? Some friends live entirely different lives but still talk to each other and catch up.

We were extremely similar in our way of thinking, finishing both each other's sentences and internal dialogues. Every friendship is different, so it will be up to you to oyur what the best course of action is for the two of you.

You may imagine the two of you laughing together. The point is: relationships are complicated.

Take some time to think over your feelings and what you want to do with them. There's a Constant Fear You Live With You could lose the most important person in your life — the one who plays the part of your best friend and boyfriend or girlfriend.

Falling in love with your best friend – what to do?

This is not only normal, but also healthy and encouraged. Make these considerations not just for their sake, but for yours.

You might feel more comfortable sharing your love if you practice being open about the value of your friendship in other ways. This other friend will help you continue to show the self-control of letting a good friendship grow into an even deeper friendship.

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These are important things to consider before taking your relationship one step further, but don't be too hard on your friendship. My friendship with Mike began innocently: we were both creativesyojre to adapt to a community that we felt stifled our innovative voices.

But this admission can make your friendship awkward. Can girl best friends fall in love? Does it sometimes feel like boundaries are crossed? Once, after they went on a seven-mile run together, he asked her out.

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Of course, it's hard to tell sometimes. Prioritize self-love and acceptance in your life, and you will unlock deep reserves of power and confidence! It will just take some time. If you let your friend lead the conversation, she will be much more open and honest, and you can avoid putting pressure on her. We make i mistake of demanding that many of our relationships be all or nothing romantically.

How to tell if you're in love with your best friend

Your best guy friend is someone that you feel connected with and can have open and honest communication with. But at times these opposite-sex friendships can also be a ih challenge. However, if you're constantly finding yourself mentioning your friend, and the people you talk to even bring this fact up, then there's a chance that you're in love with this person, and you need to be able to express your feelings.

A platonic friendship has no sexual attraction whatsoever.

Intimacy is the emotional connection you feel with someone and makes the difference between a friend and an acquaintance. These are all the natural rhythms of life, and it is okay to just be along for the ride. What Next?

You may want to pray to God for guidance in this relationship and even have ykure pray for you. Do you have a sense of warmth in your heart? If they look you in the eyes, like being close, and talk to you all the time as well, this may be proof they love you back.

That way she will be much more honest, she will feel much less awkward, and you can both open up to each other. But now, you'll have whej getting dressed up and feeling sexy in front of your SO.

Take some time and think about what you want to do with witth feelings. Either way, not admitting your feelings can mess you up in the long run. It can even make you feel sexually attracted to them.